Healing The Wounded Masculine

Wow has it been an intense month... and year to be honest!  Everything that is not aligned with our highest truth is coming to the surface to be cleared, inviting us to re-birth ourselves into our purest form so that we can live in harmony on the New Earth together.  

Since before I can remember, we’ve been healing the wounded feminine energy, both within ourselves as well as the collective.  In the transformational industry, the focus has largely been about supporting the rising of the Divine Feminine, especially in the last decade.  Well, in the last year or so, we have collectively shifted the focus to healing the wounded masculine.  And in the last couple of weeks, these wounds have come to the forefront of our attention to be cleared once and for all.  In order to do this, we must first look within ourselves to heal any imbalances so we can support the collective in balancing the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine.  

I've noticed a common theme these past couple of weeks, both for myself and my clients, is that we are all being shown the root of our own wounded masculine energy. This is an opportunity for us to lean into and heal any discomfort, distortions and last remnants of the wounded masculine within ourselves.  Remember that we all have feminine and masculine energy, and it's the dance between the two within ourselves that interacts with our external reality.  So if there's any undesired patterns that you are playing out in your external reality, most likely it is due to a wound that you are still carrying in your body's cellular memory.

Signs that your masculine energy may still be wounded:

• You don’t feel safe or secure
• You feel like you are surviving rather than thriving
• You lack a strong support structure or container
• Your actions aren’t gaining the traction you have intended
• Your relationships today are mirroring the unhealthy dynamic you and your Dad played out when you were young

If you are currently experiencing any of these, then I’d like to invite you to try this exercise that has really supported my private clients in healing their wounded masculine energy:
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• I invite you to sit in a quiet space with your eyes closed.
• Take a few deep breathes.
• Ask to be shown a specific memory from your childhood with your Dad that you wish played out differently and felt like a turning point in your relationship with him.  
• Ask your inner child how you felt in that moment.
• Then ask your inner child what she/he needed in that moment.
• Then ask your inner child what she/he wanted to say to your Dad in that moment.
• If you feel it's appropriate, ask for forgiveness using the Ho’oponopono Prayer, a Native Hawaiian practice, and really feel the words as you say them:
  • I’m Sorry
  • Please Forgive Me
  • I Love You
  • Thank You
• Repeat the prayer over and over again till you feel a release or shift in energy.
• Take a few deep breathes and allow your self to really feel any and all emotions that arise.  
• If, at any time, your emotions feel like they are taking over your whole being, come back to your breathe, open your eyes to look around at your present environment and perhaps splash some water on your face. 
• Warning.  This exercise may cause hot or cold flashes, dizziness, nausea, numbness or tingling.  It will pass, it's simply your body's way of clearing the cellular memory out of your body completely.

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Feel free to reach out for any support if you feel you need it.  This is a big one for all of us and is key to supporting us in re-birthing ourselves in the New Earth.

Let me know how this goes for you.  We are all in this together.  What benefits one, benefits all!

P.S. Stay tuned for a special announcement coming next week!  I’ve been working on something special to support you on your awakening journeys!